Inspiration

My Little Moments - Being there

A Touching Article

It's just another reading assignment we had to do for our HP, but I was so thoroughly moved. Here I wish to share it with the rest of
you the article that made tears well up in my
eyes...
Learning to become a doctor A third-year medical student reflects on a life-changing emotional experience
Dreams and reality are often very different things. As a medical student I imagined myself one day taking on the role of a gallant knight, a protector and
safekeeper of the sacred flame of life, creating miracles and wonderfully healing the sick. I wanted to make a difference and
save lives. A road accident during the summer holidays gave me a chance to live my dream - but it was very different from
what I had imagined. This piece reflects on my experience, and on how a brush with real medicine has changed me as a third-year
medical student at Monash University. The smashed machine was the first sight I encountered. A once fast, shiny road-bike
now lay on the ground, a metal carcass. I remember running towards it, scared. Next to is a body lay still. I had seen dead bodies before; cadavers
allow us to release anatomical knowledge with the stroke of a blade; they are the ultimate learning tools. But what confronted
me was no practical class - this was very real. I looked at the woman lying there. She was young, about my own age of 20, still
with P-plates on her bike. It could have been one of my friends lying there. She was dressed up, perhaps coming home from a
club somewhere, with makeup and nail polish delicately applied - real human qualities that gave a glimpse into a life that, only
minutes earlier, was full. Draped over the top of a young human was viciously snapped; blood and vomitus overflowed from her
throat onto her chest; her arm was destroyed. I knelt down beside her. It was as if I was looking through her. I
looked into her eyes but, quite simply, no one was there. Despite the horror of the scene, she looked almost peaceful. Was she
just unconscious? Could there be a flicker of life still inside her? Was this my chance to save a life, to make a difference? What
happened next was bizarre. I became machine-like, visualising a giant first-aid flowchart in my mind's eye, and began to apply my
medical knowledge. Yet again the theory did not match the reality. My only previous attempt at resuscitation had been
on a mannequin with a plastic torso and head. This woman had real lungs and a real heart. I turned her on her side and tried to
unblock her airway; I had no gloves. Using a mouth-to-mouth protective device that I carry on my keyring, i tried to shield my
hands as I attempted to scoop blood and vomitus out of her mouth. I then tried to give her air: "5 breaths in 10 seconds, and
watch the chest rise", my training had taught me. But her chest did not rise. AT first I got angry and blamed it on the
device I was using, but then I realised her entire airway was obstructed. I searched for a carotid and radial pulse but found
neither - the beat of life had stopped. I tried cardiopulmonary resuscitation but she wasn't responding - it wasn't supposed to be like this.
Yet I continued until I felt a gentle tap on my left shoulder. It was one of the ambulance officers - I had missed
their dramatic arrival, hearing my own thoughts and deaf to everything else. Never before had my mind been so clear or sharp.
My adrenalin level was so high that it took tactile stimulation to reawaken me to my surroundings - a feeling I still never forget.
Despite efforts by the ambulance officers, the girl was pronounced dead at the scene. It was in the day that followed, spending
time with my general practitioner, that I began to learn a little about what being a doctor really means. I came to him upset
that someone had died, upset at how horrific it was, upset that I had failed,upset that I had done something that may
have exposed me to to HIV, hepatitis B or hepatitis C infection, even upset that the damn thing was upsetting me! He sat and
listened. Being able to speak to someone who had witnessed similar trauma was amazingly comforting. He told me that the three
hardest things to cope with in medicine are death itself, the death of someone young, and the death of someone under your care.
I had copped all three "right between the eyes", at a time when I hadn't the experience or the training to know how to
respond or feel. My GP had no magic pills or portions to rid me of the churning inside me. Nor did he
need them - all I wanted was for him to understand what I was feeling. I was given an insight into what caring for someone
really means. He reassured me that people don't expect doctors to be miracle workers - all a family really wants in this type of
situation is for a doctor to "be there and to care". My GP suggested that I attend the funeral service if I felt comfortable doing
so. He believed it would give me a sense of closure and that it would help me to be around others with similar feelings. I sat
with him in his office after all his patients had gone home, looking through the newspapers for the funeral details.
I sat through the service and listened to the account of a life I knew nothing about. I looked around at the web of friends and
family she had interwoven. I was now a part of that web - she had touched me too. At the conclusion I introduced myself to her
father, and told him that his daughter did not die alone, that I was there caring for her. I told him that the last few days had
taught me more about caring for people, and about being a doctor, than I had learned in all my days at medical school. I told him
that I will be there for him and his family. With that, the tall, lanky man hugged me tightly, crying and thanking me for being
there, for stopping and bothering to care. It was devastatingly sad, yet enormously relieving, and I was proud. He wanted to
care for me and to share his feelings with me, something I had not expected. The simple knowledge that their daughter did
not die alone was comforting to the family. They knew that if there had been a chance for her, I was there to give her that chance.
I am starting to understand what being a doctor is about. To really care for someone connects people in such a wonderful way
that it can even make death seem a little less scary. Sometimes just being there can make all the difference.
Ryan J Hodges
Third-year medical student Monash University, Melbourne, VIC

Promise of Consistency

Have you ever seen something old, that you see everyday, for the very first time?  This happened to me recently while headed to work.
On this particular morning I hadn’t had a chance to eat, so as I sat at a stop light my eyes quite naturally landed on a restaurant sign nearby.
The sign read: Popeye’s (underneath that) Chicken and Biscuits
My eyes lingered on the biscuit portion on the sign for a while. Mmmmm…mmmmm…mmmmm!! I could taste the buttery warmth of a Popeye’s biscuit in my mouth just by reading those words.
My hunger gaze was soon interrupted by another observation about this sign. I had never noticed this before, but at the top of the sign in smaller font was a powerful message.
“Established in 1972”
This was Popeye’s unspoken promise of consistency.  In other words they are basically saying, “Chicken and biscuits is what we do. We’ve been doing this for 41 years. If it’s chicken and biscuits you want…we’re here for you…you can trust us!”
This got me thinking a bit…
What’s my promise of consistency?
For Popeye’s it’s chicken and biscuits, but what would mine be? What would yours be?
Could my promise be:
TriadnetInc – L.I.I.F.E and Service to Humanity...“Established in 2013
”
…or maybe it’s different depending on who and where…
I’ve been a leader within the same company for the past years.
At work is it:
Ayandiran wale – Fair, Courteous, IT Geek, Gets the Problem Solved and Listening Leader,
That’s my goal…that’s what I’d like my promise of consistency to be…
But…that doesn’t matter if my friends and coworkers don’t think so.
What’s your promise of consistency?
Would your friends, family and coworkers agree?
What have you established about yourself that has now become your brand?

I’m going to ask a few people about mine.
You probably should too…
Whether you ask…or whether you don’t…the fact will still remain that everyday you’re establishing something about yourself that other people can easily see.
As for me…I want to know.  That’s the only way I can work to make meaningful, personal change.  So if the promise of consistency I wrote above isn’t necessarily true…it will be 10 years from now.
Because in 2023, a promise of consistency ‘Established in 2013’ is pretty powerful!

PATIENCE

Patience of (forbearing) is the state of endurance under difficult circumstances, which can mean persevering in the face of delay or provocation without acting on annoyance/anger in a negative way; or exhibiting forbearance when under strain, especially when faced with longer-term difficulties.  according to wikipedia .

Taking it drom all religious perspective, PATIENCE is one of the Most Important Virtues any true person loyal to his/her religion should posses in any circumstances. 

Patience is the level of endurance one can take before negativity. It is also used to refer to the character trait of being steadfast
There is a blessing in calamity that the wise man should not ignore, for it;
     * Erases sins, 
     * Gives one the opportunity to attain the reward for patience,
     * Dispels negligence,
     * Reminds one of blessings at the time of health,
     * Calls one to repent and encourages one to give charity and endure.

Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word happy would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness. It is far better take things as they come along with patience and equanimity.

 Life is a learning curve and the challenges are there to make us stronger and to condition us and build us emotionally, spiritually and physically for the greater challenges that we will encounter tomorrow. Outwardly circumstances may be perceived as hardships but in reality they may really be blessings in disguise.

“The ability to discipline yourself to delay gratification in the short term in order to enjoy greater rewards in the long term is the indispensable pre-requisite for success Brian Tracy 

"Patience, persistence and perspiration make an unbeatable combination for success."
Napoleon Hill 

 

 

Change Inspiration

On our planet,there are two groups of people;
* Those who take action;
* Those who don't.
I believe you are the former because if you aren't, you will surely fall behind and Mind you that's no curse its simply a natural Law.

Understanding you are the Former, there's just one problem... You have no Idea how to start. You know there is something you need to do, you're just not sure how... or for that matter, exactly why.

There are a couple of steps you need to take if you really want to change your circumstances but first you must understand it all starts in your MIND.

Courage is doing what scares you... "there can be no courage unless you are scared"» 'ayandiran wale'

You could fool your friends;
You could fool your acquaintances;
You could fool your family;
You could even fool your spouse;
BUT
Don't Ever Fool Yourself.

Let me be blunt with you, No One can Change you. Change can only come from WITHIN YOU.
"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies WITHIN US."»'Oliver wendell Holmes'

So thats a good place to start WITHIN YOU.
Don't expect your circumstances to change,
Don't expect your boss to change,
Don't expect your parents to change,
Don't expect your spouse to change,
Don't expect your Teacher to change,
Don't expect your Government to change,
Don't expect your Income to change,
Don't expect your Net worth to change... YOU IGNITE YOUR CHANGE first, Muster-up some courage take that first step, Ignite an Action and everything else would follow. That's what this welcome note is about, its brought alive by change and represents nothing else but the change you must make happen.
" the only person who is educated is the one who has learned how to learn and change"» wale ayandiran.
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