Choosing the right partner

After thorough consideration of the suggested topic coupled with several reports on relationships/marriage breakdown from celebrities to non-celebrities, I feel obligated to write something about how to choose a partner and how to know if you are with the right person.

I discovered that every relationship problem(s) originates from the choice of partner and the reason why we go into a relationship.

Nature has designed it in a way that males choose from the ocean of ladies around and females choose from among the guys that walk up to them alone . So this piece will be more useful to female as its crucial they don't make the choice they will live to regret.

So,females please stay with me on this and endeavour to share with as much as possible females out there.

*sigh*

Now, Get a piece of paper and try this:

LIST 1 - Write a list of the qualities you want to cultivate in your 20’s. e.g I want to be more responsible with my money,I want to get married in 3years, I want to figure out my spirituality. I want to be more MINDful of how I treat my body,I want to increase my productivity rate by adding to my intellectual quotient etc.)

LIST 2 - Now, write a list of the qualities you want in a partner that must measure up with your wants in LIST 1 e.g (he/she must share my views on marriage and family,spiritual,doesn't smoke or drink heavily,has a genuine pursuit with a tangible chance of actualising it,high moral dexterity etc), and BONUS qualities
that are not essential (billionaire *grin*.).

Now, If you are in a relationship already, How does your person measure up to List 2?
How do they contribute to List 1? Be honest.

I am sure by now you will know if you have being wasting your time in a romantic relationship that will yield nothing than to hurt you or you are with the right partner.

If you are not in any yet now you know what to do so as to make the right choice.
Be Wise, No guy should beat you or disrespect you.
But it all depends on the choice you make now.